Starting with the easiest point, Vincent will never mentally submit or not have the dominance when they have sex. He's come a long way in sort of undoing himself and opening up, but he also is keeping a very small facet of himself from Yuri lest he lose himself. So, he will never give Yuri everything, and it will always end up being in the mental arena where he will deny him.
Physically, Vincent doesn't really care that much. Actually, I'm going to frame that a bit. If Vincent could trust that Yuri would do what he would like him to do, then Vincent would not mind testing out submitting to Yuri. As it is, he is still unsure that if he gave Yuri free reign, he wouldn't do something completely embarrassing with the intent to pleasure Vincent. (Best example is that if they ever did bondage again, which they aren't in Vincent's book, and Vincent was the one tied up? He would despise every second of it and end up kicking Yuri in the teeth afterwards, because he would end up being the focus throughout foreplay.) The fact is Vincent doesn't think Yuri can get it up to be a sadist, really, nor could he do it in the context that Vincent would want most of all. That is, as a fallen hero as opposed to just trying it out because he knows Vincent would enjoy it; it's a completely different angle.
Hmm, hmm, never letting Yuri lead, though . . . Yeah, I suppose Vincent does that a lot. It's probably that inherent distrust of what Yuri would do if Vincent gave him the lead. Yuri wants Vincent to enjoy himself, would balk if Vincent faked it, so it always has to be in Vincent's court when it comes to sex. It's more of a pattern that was set from way back when, too.
Back at you. Plus, talk to me about what Yuri wants in bed, now that you've got me thinking.
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Starting with the easiest point, Vincent will never mentally submit or not have the dominance when they have sex. He's come a long way in sort of undoing himself and opening up, but he also is keeping a very small facet of himself from Yuri lest he lose himself. So, he will never give Yuri everything, and it will always end up being in the mental arena where he will deny him.
Physically, Vincent doesn't really care that much. Actually, I'm going to frame that a bit. If Vincent could trust that Yuri would do what he would like him to do, then Vincent would not mind testing out submitting to Yuri. As it is, he is still unsure that if he gave Yuri free reign, he wouldn't do something completely embarrassing with the intent to pleasure Vincent. (Best example is that if they ever did bondage again, which they aren't in Vincent's book, and Vincent was the one tied up? He would despise every second of it and end up kicking Yuri in the teeth afterwards, because he would end up being the focus throughout foreplay.) The fact is Vincent doesn't think Yuri can get it up to be a sadist, really, nor could he do it in the context that Vincent would want most of all. That is, as a fallen hero as opposed to just trying it out because he knows Vincent would enjoy it; it's a completely different angle.
Hmm, hmm, never letting Yuri lead, though . . . Yeah, I suppose Vincent does that a lot. It's probably that inherent distrust of what Yuri would do if Vincent gave him the lead. Yuri wants Vincent to enjoy himself, would balk if Vincent faked it, so it always has to be in Vincent's court when it comes to sex. It's more of a pattern that was set from way back when, too.
Back at you. Plus, talk to me about what Yuri wants in bed, now that you've got me thinking.