WELL IF YOU FOLLOWED THAT THREAD ON THE CLIFF SIDE, that is basically what Dawn considers as being rough. Since he had to sit on Acedia forever, punch him in all of his feelings, force him to confront stuff he obviously didn't know how to deal with, and hold him personally responsible for the emotional destruction he rained down on Wrath.

Granted, he will still always be kinder than Tear, who would have told Acedia to do reality the favor and gtfo of everyone's life by now.